And it wasn't until then I started looking at girls a lot deeper and having a lot more respect for them and just about that time there was a girl that liked me and she wanted to do more than cuddle and she would not stop touching me and it pissed me off and that made me think at that moment this is what girls are talking about when guys are bucking aggressive and that made me realize there are boundaries that you just do not cross. When I was younger I have had friends like that and I wanted something I I was led to believe that there was more there but I learned a couple quick. We have all been through this where a cuddle has turned into something more or the guy wants something more and then has a pissy fit when the girl says no. Or if you don't want it to go that way you set ground rules. Well if this is your first time doing this you can do it two different ways you can either think ahead can understand that the guy either likes you more than that and wants to go because of different reasons but he's going to want something.